Pretend to be strangers for great sex

As you get familiar with each other's bodies, the sex can get slightly monotonous and in some cases the sizzle is completely lost. Here's what you can do to make things sizzle in the bedroom.

During the initial stages of a relationship, when the two parties involved are just about getting to discover each other, it is usually not such a problem when it comes to having an exciting time in the bedroom.

But, as you get familiar with each other's bodies, the sex can get slightly monotonous and in some cases the sizzle is completely lost. However, this does not mean it's the end of your sex life or that you can't reignite the passion.

Read on for tips on how you can add some serious spice to your love life:

Just met
Pretend you and your partner have just met each other. Put yourself in a stranger's shoes and view your partner from a new perspective. This will help you realise that he or she is still very appealing. If he or she is still getting the look from a complete stranger, it means they still have the spark.

On your part you need to find it again. In fact, let him or her in on the role playing as well. The two of you should play a little game whereby you pretend to be strangers and it's all you need to get that added excitement.

Tease please
Nothing turns on a man or woman more than teasing them. This does not mean you get snide, it means you get playfully flirtatious. For example, you could sneak in little kisses or flirt with your partner while he or she is leaving for the office or do it in public where they know you're flirting with them, but can't do anything about it.

The advantage of this is, they know what you have in mind and because you were teasing him or her about it, once you are alone with them, they'll work the magic.

The mood
If you're in the mood to make love, do it. What happens often is that even though people might crave being with their partner , they avoid doing so because they might be busy or they feel inhibited. But the truth is, if you feel like it, go get it!

Surprise your partner one day and steal him or her away from their duties for an hour or so. In fact, they might enjoy it so much that they would want a repeat performance once they get home.

Use technology
The internet and today's fast paced world has helped people in every aspect of their life. So use it to spice up your sex life as well. You can send him or her explicit text messages or emails. However, keep it graceful; there is a thin line between sexy and vulgar and you need to be sexy not the latter.

The email or message will be playing on your partner's mind the entire day and by the time they see you, it will be very hard for him or her to keep their hands off you.
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Forget real life
If both you and your partner are always too busy for each other because of your work, take a break. Yes, work is a priority but you need to balance things in life. Take a weekend off and go to a place where the two of you can forget all about real life and just focus on reigniting your bedroom passion.

Once the weekend is over you can return to your responsibilities, but you probably won't mind so much because of the fabulous weekend you had.

Surprises
If you have never done anything naughty with your partner, start now. Surprise him or her with a special dance (if you do know how to shake those hips), or in the case of women go buy some seriously suggestive lingerie. Your partner will not be able to resist.

Surrender
One sure way to have a memorable sexual experience is to let go of all inhibitions. Tell your partner you are at their mercy and allow him or her to do whatever they would like to you (as long as nobody is getting hurt).

It will not only help you in the bedroom but once all inhibitions are gone and dealt with, even your relationship will improve.