Pretend your husband fell alseep early, or passed out from drinking, and all you wanted to do all night was suck this guys dick and let him fuck you anyway he wants to! Wisper in his ear not to wake your husband he would kill us both. Kiss him, make love to him, make sure its very dark so you cant see his face this will make it feel more real for both of you! Keep wispering hot dirty things in his ear while remembering not to wake your husband up. When its all done swallow this strangers load and talk dirty about it!
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Friday, January 25, 2013
Top 10 Sex Tricks That Drive Men Wild
Sure, men are predictable—but then again they may still surprise
you. Cosmo gives you a rundown of the hottest moves that are sure to
keep your man fired up. And, yes, this is according to men themselves.
We also asked some feisty women to react to the revelations. So, whether
it’s a much-loved golden oldie or an unexpected re-entry, you’ll find
out all the bedroom tricks that never fail to get him all hot and
bothered. There are also sizzling hot remixes that will make him even
more enthusiastic under the covers.
10. Look Behind You
There’s always been something pornographic about doggy-style sex. This, of course, probably explains why men love it so much. Your guy enjoys it because he can hold your waist (the sexiest part of a woman’s body) and take a long lingering look at your butt. For David, 28, a stockbroker, the only thing hotter than actually having sex from behind was the moment his girlfriend demanded it. “She’d suddenly say, ‘Take me from behind!’ That alone really drove me crazy,” he says.
Another variation that rates highly on men’s arousal meter is when he lies on his back and you sit on top, facing away from him. When fully erect, his penis will be pointing at a 45-degree angle, so don’t lean too far forward or you might risk an embarrassing trip to the emergency room.
“There’s something so wild about being taken from behind.”
- Marla, 29, lawyer
9. Dirty Dancing
“My wife and I have been married for a little over a year,” says Mike, 30, a veterinarian, “and after the initial excitement, I have to admit that things started getting a bit boring in the bedroom. But just last month, out of the blue, she made me sit in the middle of the room while she turned on the CD player and slowly did a striptease. Every time I tried to grab her, she pushed my hand away and said, ‘No touching!’ After a few minutes of watching her gyrate, I thought I was going to explode. Come to think of it, I don’t even remember the song that was playing.”
All men are turned on by visual stimulation, so there’s nothing that your guy loves more than watching you do a striptease in front of him. If you want to give him a full lap dance, make sure you’ve practiced your moves in advance to avoid any booboos.
“I want to try this out on my hubby. I just hope he doesn’t laugh at me.”
- Christine, 25, medical representative
8. The “Clasp”
A hot new entry at number eight is this handy method of penile stimulation—the vaginal squeeze or “clasp.”
“Just as I’m about to come,” explains Harry, 31, a professor, “my girlfriend does this thing where she squeezes her vaginal muscles. It’s an amazing sensation. It feels like a hand is gripping me.” Though most men may not know the specific mechanics behind this move, a good number of women may recognize the “clasping” thing as a variation of the Kegel exercises. The said exercises involve the clenching and unclenching of the pubococcygeus muscle that surrounds the opening of the vagina. When applied at the appropriate moment, the “clasp” can intensify your man’s orgasm. Also known as “the handshake,” this is one move that will make him very pleased to meet you.
“This move’s easy enough to do and it’s a big plus that it makes my BF even hornier in bed.”
- Susan, 31, nurse
7. Mirror Image
All men—yes, even the ones with love handles and hairy backs—seem to relish the idea of watching themselves having sex. As Rob, 28, an advertising executive, reveals: “I just love being able to see everything going on and, most of all, being able to see my girlfriend’s face. I like having her face the mirror while I’m behind her.”
Of course, once they’re bored with mirrors, some men might whip out their video cameras and try to film their heated encounters with women. But then again, you have to be very careful about doing such a thing. If you’re not, somebody could get hold of the X-rated video and the next thing you know, you’re starring in your very own YouTube scandal.
“Mirrors are fine with me. It’s just much too dangerous to capture your most intimate moment on video.”
- Laura, 32, doctor
6. Do It Yourself
Rather than get offended when chicks take matters into their own hands, men get hot watching women pleasure themselves. It appeals to their voyeuristic side. Many—if not all—of them find it unbelievably sexy. “I once walked in on my girlfriend masturbating when she thought I was out of the apartment,” says Greg, 32, a doctor. “I’ve never been so turned on in my life.”
“I’d only let a man see me pleasuring myself once I’m super sure that I can trust him.”
- Michelle, 22, teacher
5. Down Under
For a lot of men, a blow job is the Rolls-Royce of sexual moves. You should never worry that you’re doing something wrong if he prefers it to be a precursor to sex—rather than the end-all and be-all of the encounter. In fact, some men admit that they found it hard to come through oral alone. Another useful piece of advice is this: Blow jobs are like chocolate; your guy may want a daily helping but they’re best enjoyed as a rare treat.
Jake, 31, an engineer, recalls the best blow job he ever got: “I went out with this girl who did this incredible move where she used both her hand and her mouth at the same time. I’m still not sure what was happening—all I know is that it felt amazing.”
“I like giving my guy oral sex because it makes me feel great that I can arouse him that much.”
- Pam, 27, nutritionist
4. The Magic Number
A surprise re-entry from this neglected classic, the 69. Guys love the idea of being able to give you oral pleasure while simultaneously returning the favor. However, unless you happen to be exactly the right height, doing it with one of you lying on top of the other can end up being a bit of a mouthful. So, try it lying side by side instead. That way, you can come up for air occasionally.
“What’s not to like?” asks Ben, 29, an architect. “Although it can sometimes be hard to concentrate on your own enjoyment when you’re busy giving someone else pleasure—or vice versa. Sooner or later, one of you has to lie back and just relax. I love it when my girlfriend suddenly stops giving me oral and just lies there moaning. For me, it’s like, ‘Yes, I’m doing something right!’”
“I enjoy this position occasionally. You know, it can be a bit challenging to multitask in bed.”
- Tina, 23, executive assistant
3. Power Undressing
Men don’t just want to get you naked as quickly as possible—they want to get you semi-naked as quickly as possible. Men love looking at women’s lingerie; it’s as simple as that. Most men would go crazy at the mere sight of black lace panties—especially if the object of their affection is wearing them. And remember, sometimes sexiness isn’t about what you take off but what you leave on.
“One of the things my wife does in bed that makes me really hot,” says Steve, 29, a physical therapist, “is when she keeps her bra on and, rather than taking off her panties, just pulls them to one side.”
“Sexy lingerie should be part of every woman’s wardrobe. It’s a very smart investment to make in the name of seduction.”
- Gina, 25, production assistant
2. Talk The Talk
Just missing out the top spot, it’s that old favorite—talking dirty. You don’t have to come up with anything too dirty to turn him on. Just tell him that you feel hot. Say what feels good and what you want him to do to you. Throw in a swear word if the mood takes you. Never be embarrassed about being loud in bed. Men are excited by a full-volume orgasm.
“Talking dirty adds to the naughtiness of the encounter. ”
- Connie, 27, stylist
1. Girls On Top
A surprise new entry at No. 1 reveals that a whole lot of men like it when women push them onto bed, straddle them, and “ride them hard.” Having you on top means that they get a full view of you in all your glory. For Matt, 27, a graphic artist, the best encounter he’s ever had was with his girlfriend on top. “She was kneeling on top of me with her legs on either side,” he recalls. “Then, I sat up and she moved her legs so she was sitting on me, rather than kneeling. The best thing was that we kept eye contact the whole time.”
“Now, this turn-on is truly beneficial to both parties! Women should really enjoy being on top more.”
- Sheryl, 33, accountant
10. Look Behind You
There’s always been something pornographic about doggy-style sex. This, of course, probably explains why men love it so much. Your guy enjoys it because he can hold your waist (the sexiest part of a woman’s body) and take a long lingering look at your butt. For David, 28, a stockbroker, the only thing hotter than actually having sex from behind was the moment his girlfriend demanded it. “She’d suddenly say, ‘Take me from behind!’ That alone really drove me crazy,” he says.
Another variation that rates highly on men’s arousal meter is when he lies on his back and you sit on top, facing away from him. When fully erect, his penis will be pointing at a 45-degree angle, so don’t lean too far forward or you might risk an embarrassing trip to the emergency room.
“There’s something so wild about being taken from behind.”
- Marla, 29, lawyer
9. Dirty Dancing
“My wife and I have been married for a little over a year,” says Mike, 30, a veterinarian, “and after the initial excitement, I have to admit that things started getting a bit boring in the bedroom. But just last month, out of the blue, she made me sit in the middle of the room while she turned on the CD player and slowly did a striptease. Every time I tried to grab her, she pushed my hand away and said, ‘No touching!’ After a few minutes of watching her gyrate, I thought I was going to explode. Come to think of it, I don’t even remember the song that was playing.”
All men are turned on by visual stimulation, so there’s nothing that your guy loves more than watching you do a striptease in front of him. If you want to give him a full lap dance, make sure you’ve practiced your moves in advance to avoid any booboos.
“I want to try this out on my hubby. I just hope he doesn’t laugh at me.”
- Christine, 25, medical representative
8. The “Clasp”
A hot new entry at number eight is this handy method of penile stimulation—the vaginal squeeze or “clasp.”
“Just as I’m about to come,” explains Harry, 31, a professor, “my girlfriend does this thing where she squeezes her vaginal muscles. It’s an amazing sensation. It feels like a hand is gripping me.” Though most men may not know the specific mechanics behind this move, a good number of women may recognize the “clasping” thing as a variation of the Kegel exercises. The said exercises involve the clenching and unclenching of the pubococcygeus muscle that surrounds the opening of the vagina. When applied at the appropriate moment, the “clasp” can intensify your man’s orgasm. Also known as “the handshake,” this is one move that will make him very pleased to meet you.
“This move’s easy enough to do and it’s a big plus that it makes my BF even hornier in bed.”
- Susan, 31, nurse
7. Mirror Image
All men—yes, even the ones with love handles and hairy backs—seem to relish the idea of watching themselves having sex. As Rob, 28, an advertising executive, reveals: “I just love being able to see everything going on and, most of all, being able to see my girlfriend’s face. I like having her face the mirror while I’m behind her.”
Of course, once they’re bored with mirrors, some men might whip out their video cameras and try to film their heated encounters with women. But then again, you have to be very careful about doing such a thing. If you’re not, somebody could get hold of the X-rated video and the next thing you know, you’re starring in your very own YouTube scandal.
“Mirrors are fine with me. It’s just much too dangerous to capture your most intimate moment on video.”
- Laura, 32, doctor
6. Do It Yourself
Rather than get offended when chicks take matters into their own hands, men get hot watching women pleasure themselves. It appeals to their voyeuristic side. Many—if not all—of them find it unbelievably sexy. “I once walked in on my girlfriend masturbating when she thought I was out of the apartment,” says Greg, 32, a doctor. “I’ve never been so turned on in my life.”
“I’d only let a man see me pleasuring myself once I’m super sure that I can trust him.”
- Michelle, 22, teacher
5. Down Under
For a lot of men, a blow job is the Rolls-Royce of sexual moves. You should never worry that you’re doing something wrong if he prefers it to be a precursor to sex—rather than the end-all and be-all of the encounter. In fact, some men admit that they found it hard to come through oral alone. Another useful piece of advice is this: Blow jobs are like chocolate; your guy may want a daily helping but they’re best enjoyed as a rare treat.
Jake, 31, an engineer, recalls the best blow job he ever got: “I went out with this girl who did this incredible move where she used both her hand and her mouth at the same time. I’m still not sure what was happening—all I know is that it felt amazing.”
“I like giving my guy oral sex because it makes me feel great that I can arouse him that much.”
- Pam, 27, nutritionist
4. The Magic Number
A surprise re-entry from this neglected classic, the 69. Guys love the idea of being able to give you oral pleasure while simultaneously returning the favor. However, unless you happen to be exactly the right height, doing it with one of you lying on top of the other can end up being a bit of a mouthful. So, try it lying side by side instead. That way, you can come up for air occasionally.
“What’s not to like?” asks Ben, 29, an architect. “Although it can sometimes be hard to concentrate on your own enjoyment when you’re busy giving someone else pleasure—or vice versa. Sooner or later, one of you has to lie back and just relax. I love it when my girlfriend suddenly stops giving me oral and just lies there moaning. For me, it’s like, ‘Yes, I’m doing something right!’”
“I enjoy this position occasionally. You know, it can be a bit challenging to multitask in bed.”
- Tina, 23, executive assistant
3. Power Undressing
Men don’t just want to get you naked as quickly as possible—they want to get you semi-naked as quickly as possible. Men love looking at women’s lingerie; it’s as simple as that. Most men would go crazy at the mere sight of black lace panties—especially if the object of their affection is wearing them. And remember, sometimes sexiness isn’t about what you take off but what you leave on.
“One of the things my wife does in bed that makes me really hot,” says Steve, 29, a physical therapist, “is when she keeps her bra on and, rather than taking off her panties, just pulls them to one side.”
“Sexy lingerie should be part of every woman’s wardrobe. It’s a very smart investment to make in the name of seduction.”
- Gina, 25, production assistant
2. Talk The Talk
Just missing out the top spot, it’s that old favorite—talking dirty. You don’t have to come up with anything too dirty to turn him on. Just tell him that you feel hot. Say what feels good and what you want him to do to you. Throw in a swear word if the mood takes you. Never be embarrassed about being loud in bed. Men are excited by a full-volume orgasm.
“Talking dirty adds to the naughtiness of the encounter. ”
- Connie, 27, stylist
1. Girls On Top
A surprise new entry at No. 1 reveals that a whole lot of men like it when women push them onto bed, straddle them, and “ride them hard.” Having you on top means that they get a full view of you in all your glory. For Matt, 27, a graphic artist, the best encounter he’s ever had was with his girlfriend on top. “She was kneeling on top of me with her legs on either side,” he recalls. “Then, I sat up and she moved her legs so she was sitting on me, rather than kneeling. The best thing was that we kept eye contact the whole time.”
“Now, this turn-on is truly beneficial to both parties! Women should really enjoy being on top more.”
- Sheryl, 33, accountant
Bring out your inner wild child during sex
Believe it or not, the key to being a great bedmate and enjoying yourself in the sack isn't all about having technical sex skills. What's essential is being able to let go. You need to tune out the world and focus your entire body and mind on the erotic experience. We'll show you how to throw yourself full-throttle into the action.
Be in the moment
It's hard to be unbridled in bed when you're worried about jiggly thighs, squooshy sex noises, and whether your man is enjoying himself. To be fully present in the encounter, you have to get into a no-stress, thought-free zone by minimising any mood-killing distractions. Turn down the lights so you're not as body-conscious, unplug the phone to avoid interruption, and pop in soft music that will inspire your sexual side.
Then, get in the right mind-set by focussing solely on all the sensations. Think about how he feels inside you, visualise him going in and out and rubbing against you. Not only will it help you get into a rhythm with your man, but it'll also make the sex more of a physical, tactile experience rather than a psychological one.
http://wonderwoman.intoday.in/story1/be-in-the-moment/1/88184.html
Be in the moment
It's hard to be unbridled in bed when you're worried about jiggly thighs, squooshy sex noises, and whether your man is enjoying himself. To be fully present in the encounter, you have to get into a no-stress, thought-free zone by minimising any mood-killing distractions. Turn down the lights so you're not as body-conscious, unplug the phone to avoid interruption, and pop in soft music that will inspire your sexual side.
Then, get in the right mind-set by focussing solely on all the sensations. Think about how he feels inside you, visualise him going in and out and rubbing against you. Not only will it help you get into a rhythm with your man, but it'll also make the sex more of a physical, tactile experience rather than a psychological one.
http://wonderwoman.intoday.in/story1/be-in-the-moment/1/88184.html
8 Tips for Being a Bad Girl in Bed…
Recently, there has been a lot of media coverage of the new ‘Bad Girls,’ and how they are driving men wild in bed. The real story? These Bad Girls are just like you, and have been driving men wild for years, with no plans to stop now. Men love women who can take control, and let their emotions and sexiness guide them. So if you want to drive him wild, steal these 8 tips for being a bad girl in bed…
1. Be The Boss
Seduce him. Don’t wait for the perfect moment, or for him to make the first move, simply jump on him. It only takes men 30 seconds to get aroused, and this will boost your confidence and make you feel sexy, and have his complete attention! If you are shy, don’t think about it or plan it, and do it randomly when you are close to him. If you’re feeling a bit braver, try getting out the handcuffs…
2. Talk Dirty
Try spicing up your sex life by randomly talking dirty to him. He’ll love the spontaneity and it’s sure to turn him on. Start with some moans and sighs (although you probably shouldn’t have to fake those…) and then add some dirty dialogue… tell him what feels good, and what you’d like him to do next. Once you’ve got started, it’ll come naturally, and he’s sure to love it.
3. Dress Up
If you know his fantasies, this is a great way to involve them in your sex life. Explore some sex shops on online boutiques and find a sexy dress up outfit that you like. Then, take a shower, and spend some time moisturizing and pampering yourself so that you look and feel amazing. If you don’t feel like investing in an outfit, use items you already have, such as one of his shirts tied around the waist and a short skirt with white underwear for a school girl look.
4. Gentle Roughness
Bring out his caveman side by being gently rough with him. Scratch his chest lightly, or gently bite his shoulder… remember that you aren’t meaning to cause pain or discomfort, simply to show him how much you want him, and awaken the primal, caveman part of him. A recent men’s study showed that men wish women would be more physical in bed, even if it hurt them!
5. Keep your heels on
Next time you seduce him, keep your heels on. You might need to adjust positions to make sure he doesn’t get hurt, but with that extra height, you’ll have many more available to try anyway, and he’ll be driven mad at the sight of your long legs. It’ll remind him of quick, secret sex, and really turn him on.
6. Let Him Have Control
Instruct your man to take control, and leave the planning to him. If you want some influence, write or buy some short stories about sexy men in control, and women being treated the way you’d love to be. Being dominated is a really popular fantasy, but it tends to vary a lot, so let him know if you’d love to be wined, dined and led to bed, or if whips and chains is more your style, and then leave the planning to him,
7. Watch Yourself
Move a large mirror into your bedroom, close to your bed, and lie on the bed. Check you can see yourself, and then seduce your other half. He won’t notice until you are having sex, and watching it will be like starring in your own secret porn, but without any evidence to destroy. This is a great tip which is often recommended by sex therapists, so give it a try!
8. Strip Tease
Give your man his very own strip tease. Choose a song that you love, and take your clothes off slowly, without exposing yourself too fast, and remember not to let him touch! If you are far too shy for this, consider making it a game, such as playing strip poker. The loser has a sexy challenge, of course…
These tricks are a great way to boost your sex life, and remind your other half how sexy and redblooded you really are, as well as boosting your confidence. Once you start to think like a sex goddess, you’ll start to feel like one too, and soon you’ll be sexy instinctively! Have you got a tip for bad-girl sex? Please let me know!
http://allwomenstalk.com/8-tips-for-being-a-bad-girl-in-bed/
1. Be The Boss
Seduce him. Don’t wait for the perfect moment, or for him to make the first move, simply jump on him. It only takes men 30 seconds to get aroused, and this will boost your confidence and make you feel sexy, and have his complete attention! If you are shy, don’t think about it or plan it, and do it randomly when you are close to him. If you’re feeling a bit braver, try getting out the handcuffs…
2. Talk Dirty
Try spicing up your sex life by randomly talking dirty to him. He’ll love the spontaneity and it’s sure to turn him on. Start with some moans and sighs (although you probably shouldn’t have to fake those…) and then add some dirty dialogue… tell him what feels good, and what you’d like him to do next. Once you’ve got started, it’ll come naturally, and he’s sure to love it.
3. Dress Up
If you know his fantasies, this is a great way to involve them in your sex life. Explore some sex shops on online boutiques and find a sexy dress up outfit that you like. Then, take a shower, and spend some time moisturizing and pampering yourself so that you look and feel amazing. If you don’t feel like investing in an outfit, use items you already have, such as one of his shirts tied around the waist and a short skirt with white underwear for a school girl look.
4. Gentle Roughness
Bring out his caveman side by being gently rough with him. Scratch his chest lightly, or gently bite his shoulder… remember that you aren’t meaning to cause pain or discomfort, simply to show him how much you want him, and awaken the primal, caveman part of him. A recent men’s study showed that men wish women would be more physical in bed, even if it hurt them!
5. Keep your heels on
Next time you seduce him, keep your heels on. You might need to adjust positions to make sure he doesn’t get hurt, but with that extra height, you’ll have many more available to try anyway, and he’ll be driven mad at the sight of your long legs. It’ll remind him of quick, secret sex, and really turn him on.
6. Let Him Have Control
Instruct your man to take control, and leave the planning to him. If you want some influence, write or buy some short stories about sexy men in control, and women being treated the way you’d love to be. Being dominated is a really popular fantasy, but it tends to vary a lot, so let him know if you’d love to be wined, dined and led to bed, or if whips and chains is more your style, and then leave the planning to him,
7. Watch Yourself
Move a large mirror into your bedroom, close to your bed, and lie on the bed. Check you can see yourself, and then seduce your other half. He won’t notice until you are having sex, and watching it will be like starring in your own secret porn, but without any evidence to destroy. This is a great tip which is often recommended by sex therapists, so give it a try!
8. Strip Tease
Give your man his very own strip tease. Choose a song that you love, and take your clothes off slowly, without exposing yourself too fast, and remember not to let him touch! If you are far too shy for this, consider making it a game, such as playing strip poker. The loser has a sexy challenge, of course…
These tricks are a great way to boost your sex life, and remind your other half how sexy and redblooded you really are, as well as boosting your confidence. Once you start to think like a sex goddess, you’ll start to feel like one too, and soon you’ll be sexy instinctively! Have you got a tip for bad-girl sex? Please let me know!
http://allwomenstalk.com/8-tips-for-being-a-bad-girl-in-bed/
Pretend to be strangers for great sex
As you get familiar with each other's bodies, the sex can get slightly monotonous and in some cases the sizzle is completely lost. Here's what you can do to make things sizzle in the bedroom.
During the initial stages of a relationship, when the two parties involved are just about getting to discover each other, it is usually not such a problem when it comes to having an exciting time in the bedroom.
But, as you get familiar with each other's bodies, the sex can get slightly monotonous and in some cases the sizzle is completely lost. However, this does not mean it's the end of your sex life or that you can't reignite the passion.
Read on for tips on how you can add some serious spice to your love life:
Just met
Pretend you and your partner have just met each other. Put yourself in a stranger's shoes and view your partner from a new perspective. This will help you realise that he or she is still very appealing. If he or she is still getting the look from a complete stranger, it means they still have the spark.
On your part you need to find it again. In fact, let him or her in on the role playing as well. The two of you should play a little game whereby you pretend to be strangers and it's all you need to get that added excitement.
Tease please
Nothing turns on a man or woman more than teasing them. This does not mean you get snide, it means you get playfully flirtatious. For example, you could sneak in little kisses or flirt with your partner while he or she is leaving for the office or do it in public where they know you're flirting with them, but can't do anything about it.
The advantage of this is, they know what you have in mind and because you were teasing him or her about it, once you are alone with them, they'll work the magic.
The mood
If you're in the mood to make love, do it. What happens often is that even though people might crave being with their partner , they avoid doing so because they might be busy or they feel inhibited. But the truth is, if you feel like it, go get it!
Surprise your partner one day and steal him or her away from their duties for an hour or so. In fact, they might enjoy it so much that they would want a repeat performance once they get home.
Use technology
The internet and today's fast paced world has helped people in every aspect of their life. So use it to spice up your sex life as well. You can send him or her explicit text messages or emails. However, keep it graceful; there is a thin line between sexy and vulgar and you need to be sexy not the latter.
The email or message will be playing on your partner's mind the entire day and by the time they see you, it will be very hard for him or her to keep their hands off you.
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Forget real life
If both you and your partner are always too busy for each other because of your work, take a break. Yes, work is a priority but you need to balance things in life. Take a weekend off and go to a place where the two of you can forget all about real life and just focus on reigniting your bedroom passion.
Once the weekend is over you can return to your responsibilities, but you probably won't mind so much because of the fabulous weekend you had.
Surprises
If you have never done anything naughty with your partner, start now. Surprise him or her with a special dance (if you do know how to shake those hips), or in the case of women go buy some seriously suggestive lingerie. Your partner will not be able to resist.
Surrender
One sure way to have a memorable sexual experience is to let go of all inhibitions. Tell your partner you are at their mercy and allow him or her to do whatever they would like to you (as long as nobody is getting hurt).
It will not only help you in the bedroom but once all inhibitions are gone and dealt with, even your relationship will improve.
During the initial stages of a relationship, when the two parties involved are just about getting to discover each other, it is usually not such a problem when it comes to having an exciting time in the bedroom.
But, as you get familiar with each other's bodies, the sex can get slightly monotonous and in some cases the sizzle is completely lost. However, this does not mean it's the end of your sex life or that you can't reignite the passion.
Read on for tips on how you can add some serious spice to your love life:
Just met
Pretend you and your partner have just met each other. Put yourself in a stranger's shoes and view your partner from a new perspective. This will help you realise that he or she is still very appealing. If he or she is still getting the look from a complete stranger, it means they still have the spark.
On your part you need to find it again. In fact, let him or her in on the role playing as well. The two of you should play a little game whereby you pretend to be strangers and it's all you need to get that added excitement.
Tease please
Nothing turns on a man or woman more than teasing them. This does not mean you get snide, it means you get playfully flirtatious. For example, you could sneak in little kisses or flirt with your partner while he or she is leaving for the office or do it in public where they know you're flirting with them, but can't do anything about it.
The advantage of this is, they know what you have in mind and because you were teasing him or her about it, once you are alone with them, they'll work the magic.
The mood
If you're in the mood to make love, do it. What happens often is that even though people might crave being with their partner , they avoid doing so because they might be busy or they feel inhibited. But the truth is, if you feel like it, go get it!
Surprise your partner one day and steal him or her away from their duties for an hour or so. In fact, they might enjoy it so much that they would want a repeat performance once they get home.
Use technology
The internet and today's fast paced world has helped people in every aspect of their life. So use it to spice up your sex life as well. You can send him or her explicit text messages or emails. However, keep it graceful; there is a thin line between sexy and vulgar and you need to be sexy not the latter.
The email or message will be playing on your partner's mind the entire day and by the time they see you, it will be very hard for him or her to keep their hands off you.
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Forget real life
If both you and your partner are always too busy for each other because of your work, take a break. Yes, work is a priority but you need to balance things in life. Take a weekend off and go to a place where the two of you can forget all about real life and just focus on reigniting your bedroom passion.
Once the weekend is over you can return to your responsibilities, but you probably won't mind so much because of the fabulous weekend you had.
Surprises
If you have never done anything naughty with your partner, start now. Surprise him or her with a special dance (if you do know how to shake those hips), or in the case of women go buy some seriously suggestive lingerie. Your partner will not be able to resist.
Surrender
One sure way to have a memorable sexual experience is to let go of all inhibitions. Tell your partner you are at their mercy and allow him or her to do whatever they would like to you (as long as nobody is getting hurt).
It will not only help you in the bedroom but once all inhibitions are gone and dealt with, even your relationship will improve.
The World of Imagination
Some people fantasize about their
partner having sex with another person, and some people fantasize about
their partner cheating on them.
The World of Imagination
Men and women fantasize about diverse situations and individuals. Some people, like you, fantasize about their partner having sex with another person.Such sexual fantasies may involve threesomes or larger numbers of people involved in group sex or orgies. Other times people fantasize about their partner having sex with one other person – either with them watching or in private, imagining that their partner is cheating on them. Sometimes people even find it particularly arousing to fantasize about walking in on their partner having sex with another person.
Fantasies like these do not necessarily make you abnormal or disloyal to your wife. People have different ideas about what is wrong or not for themselves or for their relationship. Many people also often find that their fantasies may change throughout the course of their relationships or their lives. Just because you have these fantasies now does not mean that you always will.
I Can’t Fight This Feeling Anymore
It’s also the case that when people try very hard to stop thinking about something, the thought or fantasy can become even more prominent, or become difficult to stop thinking about. You might consider how you can give yourself permission to experience, or even enjoy, your fantasy.Cuckoldry
Fantasies like you described – in which a man fantasizes about his wife cheating with another man – may be called “cuckoldry” fantasies or “hotwife” fantasies. Though they have likely been around for many generations, they are becoming more openly discussed in recent years.Thoughts Become Reality
Whether or not you tell your wife about your fantasy is up to you, though it’s not unusual for people to keep some of their sexual thoughts or fantasies to themselves.However, some couples enjoy sharing fantasies with each other. Just because two people enjoy or feel aroused by sharing fantasies or role-playing does not mean that they want to engage in the fantasy in real life. If your wife is open to hearing about your fantasy, you may be able to role play by talking during sex or by her using a sex toy, such as a dildo, as if she were having sex with another man.
10 erotic role playing ideas
The repairman
This works equally well with the plumber, electrician, etc. You choose! Your partner, a jack of all trades, rings the bell. You greet this manly figure in your new satin nightdress and let him in. You flirt a bit while he rummages through his toolbox. Ideally, draw this part out for a while. Then, when your repairman actually starts to 'repair' something, you lean over him, brushing past him with the narrowest of margins... an essential step for increasing levels of arousal.
Why's it so hot?
The surprise, unexpected encounter. It's an "I like you, you like me, let's get on with it" kind of situation. Often, this experience turns out to be much more exciting in role playing situations than in real life!
The hitch hiker
You could try this out for real if you have a car and know of a calm, isolated place where your partner can pull over by the side of the road - we didn't tell you to do that though! Just make sure you're wearing a skirt (it's easier to get down to business in) and it's much more discreet.
If you haven't got a car - take a taxi. Your boyfriend can take a taxi, "spot" you on the way and ask the cab driver to stop! Pretend you're old acquaintances that haven't seen each other in a while... you can't go all the way but you can get things started.
Why's it so hot?
In scenario 1, it's the instantaneous sex; the promiscuity and the fact of being in a tight, enclosed space that immediately makes it feel hot. You could either play the role of the innocent hitchhiker whom the driver takes a liking for, or the horny hitchhiker who can't keep her hands off the driver!
In scenario 2, acting like you've only just met up again in front of a stranger can add authenticity to your pretend affair. Snogging in the back seat will give you all the build up you need to get seriously sexy when you get home.
The luxury call girl and the client
You're so sexy and such an expert in what you do that your man is willing to pay a lot to screw you! For you, anything is permitted: provocative clothing, daring techniques, dirty talk… but no kissing. Why not arrange to find him, alone, sat at the bar of a classy hotel? Act out the scenario then return home to seal the deal!
Why's it so hot?
You're the call girl who knows how to please, seduce, keep a man begging... and make him pay up! Not being able to kiss you will drive your lover mad with desire.
Sleeping Beauty
You're in a very deep sleep and only the very skilled Prince Charming can wake you up from it. And this time, there's no guarantee that a simple kiss will do the trick... at least not just a kiss on the mouth. It's a practical role playing game because Beauty is lying down on a bed, which is perfect for the events that follow. And it's even more of a turn-on if she takes her time to react to her prince's kisses and caresses.
Why's it so hot?
It's about sensuality and the man being able to stir up his partner's desire. This theme is as old as the hills: the day that the prince arrives, her body is finally awakened.
The stripper
... or the Chippendale! Lightly dressed, you dance for and flirt with your lover but he doesn't have the right to touch you. While he sits on his hands, you strike some lustful poses and dance and slowly strip; you know exactly how to turn him on.
Why's it so hot?
It's exhibitionism and voyeurism in one. It's healthy and natural. Everyone likes looking at their partner's body or feeling looked at and desired. The sense of sight is one of the senses that count the most when it comes to desire and pleasure, especially for men!
All tied up
Although in reality it's wrong, in fantasies and role play, its significance is completely different. In the real world, restraining someone is assault or rape, even. In role play, in contrast, it signifies: "you're so desirable that I can't resist you. You have such power over me that I want you at all costs". And for a woman, it can be very liberating. She might allow herself do things she would never normally have dared, because she's obliged to.
But the role playing must always remain a game and both partners must be fully consenting about the scenario. Otherwise, it could become very unpleasant. Have a safe word to say if things get out of hand or go too far for you. It shouldn't be 'NO' or 'STOP' because you'll need those words for a realistic role play - something like 'BANANA' or 'BINGO' should kill the mood, like an emergency stop button.
Why's it so hot?
Sex when restrained in some way can be a real eye-opener to things you hadn't even thought about or dared to suggest yourself. And if you're the one doing the tying up, you can really get to know your partner's body and see just how badly he wants you. You'll get to tease him until he's about to explode!
Joker card
All of the previous ideas are just suggestions so you can, of course, come up with your own scenarios too. Let your fantasies run free: "I'm the wolf and you're Little Red Riding Hood", "I'm the master and you're my slave", "let's play doctors and nurses"... anything goes! Use props and don't be afraid to improvise - no silk scarf? Tie him up with your stockings! Change your appearance too - the key to good role play is really getting into character.
Note
The rougher a game is, the greater the understanding needs to be between the two partners. A certain amount of playful aggressiveness can be a turn-on if you totally trust the other person. Always have a safe word agreed so you can stop the game if you feel uncomfortable.
This works equally well with the plumber, electrician, etc. You choose! Your partner, a jack of all trades, rings the bell. You greet this manly figure in your new satin nightdress and let him in. You flirt a bit while he rummages through his toolbox. Ideally, draw this part out for a while. Then, when your repairman actually starts to 'repair' something, you lean over him, brushing past him with the narrowest of margins... an essential step for increasing levels of arousal.
Why's it so hot?
The surprise, unexpected encounter. It's an "I like you, you like me, let's get on with it" kind of situation. Often, this experience turns out to be much more exciting in role playing situations than in real life!
The hitch hiker
You could try this out for real if you have a car and know of a calm, isolated place where your partner can pull over by the side of the road - we didn't tell you to do that though! Just make sure you're wearing a skirt (it's easier to get down to business in) and it's much more discreet.
If you haven't got a car - take a taxi. Your boyfriend can take a taxi, "spot" you on the way and ask the cab driver to stop! Pretend you're old acquaintances that haven't seen each other in a while... you can't go all the way but you can get things started.
Why's it so hot?
In scenario 1, it's the instantaneous sex; the promiscuity and the fact of being in a tight, enclosed space that immediately makes it feel hot. You could either play the role of the innocent hitchhiker whom the driver takes a liking for, or the horny hitchhiker who can't keep her hands off the driver!
In scenario 2, acting like you've only just met up again in front of a stranger can add authenticity to your pretend affair. Snogging in the back seat will give you all the build up you need to get seriously sexy when you get home.
The luxury call girl and the client
You're so sexy and such an expert in what you do that your man is willing to pay a lot to screw you! For you, anything is permitted: provocative clothing, daring techniques, dirty talk… but no kissing. Why not arrange to find him, alone, sat at the bar of a classy hotel? Act out the scenario then return home to seal the deal!
Why's it so hot?
You're the call girl who knows how to please, seduce, keep a man begging... and make him pay up! Not being able to kiss you will drive your lover mad with desire.
Sleeping Beauty
You're in a very deep sleep and only the very skilled Prince Charming can wake you up from it. And this time, there's no guarantee that a simple kiss will do the trick... at least not just a kiss on the mouth. It's a practical role playing game because Beauty is lying down on a bed, which is perfect for the events that follow. And it's even more of a turn-on if she takes her time to react to her prince's kisses and caresses.
Why's it so hot?
It's about sensuality and the man being able to stir up his partner's desire. This theme is as old as the hills: the day that the prince arrives, her body is finally awakened.
The stripper
... or the Chippendale! Lightly dressed, you dance for and flirt with your lover but he doesn't have the right to touch you. While he sits on his hands, you strike some lustful poses and dance and slowly strip; you know exactly how to turn him on.
Why's it so hot?
It's exhibitionism and voyeurism in one. It's healthy and natural. Everyone likes looking at their partner's body or feeling looked at and desired. The sense of sight is one of the senses that count the most when it comes to desire and pleasure, especially for men!
All tied up
Although in reality it's wrong, in fantasies and role play, its significance is completely different. In the real world, restraining someone is assault or rape, even. In role play, in contrast, it signifies: "you're so desirable that I can't resist you. You have such power over me that I want you at all costs". And for a woman, it can be very liberating. She might allow herself do things she would never normally have dared, because she's obliged to.
But the role playing must always remain a game and both partners must be fully consenting about the scenario. Otherwise, it could become very unpleasant. Have a safe word to say if things get out of hand or go too far for you. It shouldn't be 'NO' or 'STOP' because you'll need those words for a realistic role play - something like 'BANANA' or 'BINGO' should kill the mood, like an emergency stop button.
Why's it so hot?
Sex when restrained in some way can be a real eye-opener to things you hadn't even thought about or dared to suggest yourself. And if you're the one doing the tying up, you can really get to know your partner's body and see just how badly he wants you. You'll get to tease him until he's about to explode!
Joker card
All of the previous ideas are just suggestions so you can, of course, come up with your own scenarios too. Let your fantasies run free: "I'm the wolf and you're Little Red Riding Hood", "I'm the master and you're my slave", "let's play doctors and nurses"... anything goes! Use props and don't be afraid to improvise - no silk scarf? Tie him up with your stockings! Change your appearance too - the key to good role play is really getting into character.
Note
The rougher a game is, the greater the understanding needs to be between the two partners. A certain amount of playful aggressiveness can be a turn-on if you totally trust the other person. Always have a safe word agreed so you can stop the game if you feel uncomfortable.
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